A teenage girl who was dumped by her
'controlling' boyfriend committed suicide by deliberately stepping into
the path of traffic on a dark motorway, an inquest heard.
Lena
Begum, 18, had been wandering around the three lane carriageway for up
to two hours during which she recorded a 3am voicemail message for
Quzlam Ahmed saying: 'You will probably love me one day the way I loved
you, but it will be too late.'
Minutes
later the dental student was killed after walking in front of a van
travelling at almost 60mph along the inside lane of the M65 near her
home in Burnley, Lancashire.
The inquest heard that the driver, John Trainer, was
unable to spot Lena until it was too late because the street lights on
the motorway had been switched off by highway chiefs to cut costs.
Lena,
who studied at Blackburn College, had met Mr Ahmed, known as 'Kammy',
in October 2012, but he been 'controlling' and treating her 'poorly', it
emerged at the hearing.
Her
parents - from a traditional Bengali family - became concerned about
the relationship and had reported Lena missing several times from the
family home in Reedley.
After Mr Ahmed hit her on her 18th
birthday and told her he had no longer wanted a relationship, Lena
threatened to self-harm, claiming she was 'not afraid of dying' and that
'death held no fear for her'.
Lena’s
friend, Taslena Alam, told the Burnley hearing how the teenager was
'mentally obsessed' and 'crazy' about Ahmed, and had even etched the
name 'Kammy' into her arm.
She
said Lena would 'drop everything' to meet Mr Ahmed whenever he called, and
as the relationship developed she went from being 'happy and fun' to
'depressed'.
In a statement, she said Lena had told her she would 'go onto a motorway and get herself run over.'
Miss Alam said: 'I kept telling her to stop seeing him but she didn’t listen.'
On the night of the tragedy on April 10 last year, Miss Alam said she and
Lena had been at the home of a friend Marcia Khan before heading to a
shisha bar, where guests smoke flavoured tobacco in pipes.
Afterwards Lena asked to be dropped
off on a road near the motorway. Miss Alam said: 'All I remember is her
going up some stairs, she seemed happy. She wasn’t saying about hurting
herself, she never said anything.'
Miss
Khan said during the evening Lena had confided in her about her romance
with Ahmed. She said: 'Lena was saying how he didn’t love her and she
just wanted him to love her, that she does everything for him and he
doesn’t do anything.
'She was being quiet - before that
conversation she was happy and bubbly. I’d heard a few things that she
had tried doing things in the past but didn’t believe that she had the
ability.'
She said at the
end of the evening, Lena had, 'walked up the stairs, turned around and
smiled'. She added: 'I smiled back.That was the last time I saw her.
'She said she wanted to see her friend, and made it sound so realistic.'
But
half an hour later Lena was spotted walking down the motorway slip road
and into oncoming traffic, recording messages to loved ones as she held
her mobile phone.
Driver
Michelle Harris, who was coming off the motorway, said: 'She was not
dawdling, not staggering and appeared to be doing something with her
mobile phone, holding it up with both hands at chest level.
'I thought she was texting. I slowed
and came to a stop and looked in my mirror and couldn’t see her. I
thought she could have broken down.'
The
inquest heard that deliveryman John Trainer, 48, was driving his
Mercedes Sprinter van in the inside lane of the motorway at 3.50am when
Lena walked in front of him.
His statement read: 'There was no lighting, the area was pitch black.
For a split second I caught a glimpse of a person who was walking across
from lane two, almost at the line divider.
'I
pressed the brakes as hard as I could, I swerved to avoid. She didn’t
even look towards me, she just continued to walk across. I couldn’t
avoid the collision.
'I
don’t believe I could have done anything to avoid her, I do believe if
there were motorway lights I would have seen her sooner and slowed down a
lot sooner.'
Lena was
pronounced dead at the scene despite attempts to save her. Records
showed she had spoken to Ahmed twice on the phone for around 30 minutes.
At 2.05 am she posted a picture to Facebook and Twitter, and earlier in the evening posted messages on social networking sites.
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